The Relationship Alignment Deep Dive
A Focused 60-Minute Diagnostic for Relationship Clarity
Some of the most accomplished women I know make difficult decisions all day long at work. When it comes to their marriage, it's different. The stakes are too high, the ramifications too far-reaching — and they stop trusting their own read on the situation. It's just too close to home.
The Relationship Alignment Deep Dive is a structured, paid diagnostic conversation that helps you see your situation clearly enough to determine your next steps.
When relationship strain begins to affect your work performance, this session brings to the surface why you're conflicted and whether deeper, ongoing work makes sense.
A quick explanation:
In this short video, I explain how the 60 minutes are used and how to know whether it is the right step for you.
If you prefer to read, the details are outlined below.
What we'll do together
In this structured session, we assess the current dynamic and your internal positioning within it
- Identify the pattern currently destabilizing your composure
- Examine the assumptions of belief loops that influence your reaction — and why intelligence alone hasn't been enough to change them
- Clarify how you are interpreting the situation and others' behavior
- Distinguish between temporary strain and true misalignment
- Define whether deeper work is indicated
You leave with a clear picture of what is happening and what needs to shift. The decision about what to do next remains entirely yours
The Investment
The Relationship Alignment Deep Dive is $100.
If we determine that continued mentoring is appropriate, this amount is credited toward that work.
“I had struggled with an issue that had haunted me for years. Dr. Irena asked just the right questions, and suddenly I could see clearly. The shift was immediate.
In that one session, we went deeper than I had in a year and a half of therapy!
Afterward, I felt compelled to follow up because the hour had been far more valuable than I expected.
It changed the direction of my life in a way I didn’t anticipate.”
— Claudine Wolk
Radio show host and author of It Gets Easier and Other Lies We Tell New Mothers
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to prepare anything?
No formal preparation is required.
If helpful, you may reflect briefly on what feels most pressing...otherwise the structure of the session will guide the process.
Is this a discovery call?
No. This is not a discovery call. It is a diagnostic designed to assess your situation and determine the appropriate next step.
Will you tell me whether I should stay or leave?
No. The purpose of the Deep Dive is to restore perspective and evaluate the underlying dynamic so you can make a deliberate decision from clarity rather than reactivity.
Do I need to bring my partner?
No. This is an individual session focused on your internal positioning and your experience of the relationship. Your partner does not attend.
Is this session confidential?
Yes. The conversation is private and fully confidential.